Disobedience

Disobedience

DVD - 2018
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A woman returns to the community that shunned her for her attraction to a childhood friend. Once back, their passions reignite as they explore the boundaries of faith and sexuality.

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Corbin12
Jun 04, 2019

I understand gay people have relationships. So why is it necessary to witness the sexual side of the relationship? It is distracting to the story. Surely the relationship is more than sex.
I enjoyed learning more about the Jewish faith.

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downsman
Apr 04, 2019

I very much enjoyed this film and its portrayal of the complexities of relationships (variously familial, marital, romantic, and religious) within a very conservative community, precipitated by the death of a beloved and respected rabbi, and the return of his estranged (from both him and the community) daughter who was not told of his being unwell until after his death. Like many rewarding films it is a story of redemption, and of new understanding. I also liked how it was often quite subtle; if one did not know that Orthodox men are supposed to have no physical contact of any sort with women to whom they are not married or closely related, or that Orthodox women must either keep their hair covered with scarves or hats, or wear wigs, one would have to deduce that from watching the film carefully. Great movie all round.

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librarycatnip
Mar 30, 2019

So disappointed with this film. It felt very muted and wooden throughout. It was hard to see much of the relationship between the two women, it was hard to see and understand the relationships in general in this film. The relationship the main character had with her deceased father must have had complexity and layers, but we get to see so little of that. What does it mean for her when her father, someone who rejected her and repressed her in various ways, dies? We get to see that she misses him, and that other people have expectations of what she "should" feel, but I don't know really what else is going on for her. I really just wanted more from this film.

That said, as a comment on an earlier review complaining that anyone not Jewish would be entirely offended by this film, I found that this film offered a lot of new-to-me information about Jewish Orthodoxy.

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blkops33
Feb 04, 2019

HER EYES!!!!! THEIR EYES!!!! NUFF SAID!!!!

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Ky68RasK
Jan 04, 2019

The ties that bind suffocate and destroy (or partially destroy) lives.

But even in such a tight-knit community as the one depicted here, there are second chances. We're used to thinking that personal freedom is ours for the taking, however in this authoritarian atmosphere, one of the characters asks to be set free because the weight of religious tradition is such that she is deeply conflicted and feels trapped by it.

So this is not actually a review, but thoughts that came to me after watching the film which is riveting and features superb acting from both Rachels. The ending was not quite as satisfying as I wished it would be, but given what has happened in the story, one can say, you can use your imagination as to what the future holds.

Absolutely recommended.

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Theatrescott
Dec 27, 2018

RECOMMENDED - I really enjoyed the performances and the story. However, the journey was better than the destination. Hope that makes sense.

NOTE TO PAST REVIEW: I am not of the Jewish religion and I still liked this movie. I am not a dinosaur scientist either but still enjoyed Jurassic World. Not sure why a movie watcher has to be related to the material to enjoy it. Isn't that what movies (and plays) are for? To visit a world that we are not familiar with. And in doing so, learn about different cultures, places, religions, etc.

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MichelleinBallard
Dec 26, 2018

I enjoyed this film more than I thought I would. Nice work by the two Rachels and Alessandro Nivola.

Were it up to me, I might have ended it with the scene where the three main characters are all embracing outside the synagogue after the hesped. In any case, I found it fruitful to go back and watch Rav Krushka's sermon at the beginning of the movie. Dovid does have "sufficient understanding".

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D061145902
Nov 30, 2018

The two Rachels are great. They make a sweet couple and I wanted them to be together.

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voisjoe1_0
Nov 29, 2018

I really had to research where the two protagonists locate on the HLGBT spectrum to help me determine what they were giving up at the end of the film. It was the opposite of what I had suspected (according to Wikipedia).

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Annaf71
Nov 27, 2018

The book was okay but this movie was disgusting.

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